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Justin Hillier

11 October 2026

31m 27s

Coming Out: In Your Own Words - Reported Speech

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This episode marks National Coming Out Day with a compassionate, wide-ranging look at what it means to come out. Justin explores the phrase's origins – from debutante ‘coming out’ parties to the metaphor of the closet – then discusses how coming out varies across time, cultures and languages. He shares celebrity examples (Ellen DeGeneres, Elliot Page, Ricky Martin, Caitlyn Jenner), personal anecdotes and important safety considerations for listeners in hostile environments. The episode emphasizes that coming out is a personal choice, can be repeated throughout life and that selective disclosure is a valid approach.

Resources to help with coming out:

Stonewall UK (stonewall.org.uk). https://www.stonewall.org.uk/news/why-do-we-need-national-coming-out-day?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20401001017&gbraid=0AAAAADk5tNxkpHRQiqXkxNoDQxqFBl55b&gclid=CjwKCAjwlY3WBhANEiwApsNrLdPllPRxCyDLQgHlGC0O482tEUAFL_wBd85njuWI1yyUAf3zwh1a4RoCJUwQAvD_BwE

PFLAG (US) — resources for families

The Trevor Project (US, for young people)

It Gets Better Project — international

Coming Out Simulator (online) — an interactive piece of fiction about a coming out conversation worth experiencing

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