Justin Hillier
11 October 2026
31m 27s
Coming Out: In Your Own Words - Reported Speech
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31:27

Justin Hillier
11 October 2026
31m 27s
00:00
31:27
This episode marks National Coming Out Day with a compassionate, wide-ranging look at what it means to come out. Justin explores the phrase's origins – from debutante ‘coming out’ parties to the metaphor of the closet – then discusses how coming out varies across time, cultures and languages. He shares celebrity examples (Ellen DeGeneres, Elliot Page, Ricky Martin, Caitlyn Jenner), personal anecdotes and important safety considerations for listeners in hostile environments. The episode emphasizes that coming out is a personal choice, can be repeated throughout life and that selective disclosure is a valid approach.
Resources to help with coming out:
Stonewall UK (stonewall.org.uk). https://www.stonewall.org.uk/news/why-do-we-need-national-coming-out-day?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20401001017&gbraid=0AAAAADk5tNxkpHRQiqXkxNoDQxqFBl55b&gclid=CjwKCAjwlY3WBhANEiwApsNrLdPllPRxCyDLQgHlGC0O482tEUAFL_wBd85njuWI1yyUAf3zwh1a4RoCJUwQAvD_BwE
PFLAG (US) — resources for families
The Trevor Project (US, for young people)
It Gets Better Project — international
Coming Out Simulator (online) — an interactive piece of fiction about a coming out conversation worth experiencing